STRETCH MARKS, WOBBLY BITS, SAGGY BITS, BIG BITS, SMALL BITS, SCARRED BITS, LOVE HANDLES, CELLULITE, EXTRA ROLLS… WHO CARES…WE ARE ALL AMAZING JUST THE WAY WE ARE. ALL DIFFERENT AND ALL UNIQUE…
WE ALL HAVE OUR OWN FLAWS AND INSECURITIES BUT GETTING CAUGHT UP IN THEM IS A COMPLETE WASTE OF ENERGY AND TIME THAT TAKES AWAY FROM US ACTUALLY LIVING OUR LIVES AND LAPPING UP ALL THE PRECIOUS TIME WE HAVE FOR ALL ITS WORTH TO SPEND ON THE IMPORTANT THINGS.. … OUR BODIES GIVE US LIFE, SOME ARE LUCKY ENOUGH TO MAKE LIFE…BUT ULTIMATELY OUR BODIES LET US LEAD A LIFE AND NOT BEING HAPPY WITH THE WAY YOU LOOK OR GETTING CAUGHT UP IN WORRYING WHAT OTHERS OPINIONS OF YOUR LOOKS ARE IS A POINTLESS PROCESS….HOWEVER YOU LOOK, YOU’RE ALIVE AND BEING ALIVE ROCKS…. OUR BODIES ARE AMAZING…LIFE IS A GIFT, WOBBLY BITS AND ALL.
I REALLY COULDN’T GIVE A TOSS WHAT OTHERS THINK AND WOULD MUCH PREFER TO SPEND MY ENERGIES ON HAVING FUN WITH THE PRECIOUS VESSEL I HAVE INSTEAD OF FRETTING ABOUT HOW IT LOOKS OR WHAT OTHERS THINK.
BE YOURSELF, IT’S SO MUCH MORE APPEALING THAN TRYING TO STEREOTYPICALLY FIT IN TO PLEASE OTHERS.
THOSE WHO LOVE YOU, ACCEPT YOU, THOSE WHO JUDGE YOU AND EXPECT YOU TO BE ANY OTHER WAY THAN THE WAY YOU ARE CAN BUGGER OFF.
IT’S COMPLETELY FINE TO BE INSECURE FROM TIME TO TIME, IT’S COMPLETELY FINE TO ACTIVELY AIM TO CHANGE YOURSELF, TO GRASP ONTO A LEVEL OF COMFORT IN YOUR OWN BODY, PSYCHOLOGICALLY OR PHYSICALLY….BUT DO IT FOR YOURSELF, NOT OTHERS.
I’m not shouting, I just couldn’t be arsed to correct the ‘cap lock’ I mistakingly left on 😂
38 weeks expectant…photos by my daughter (whom exudes an inner beauty we could all learn from and I hope she always keeps) and at 12 years old continuously tells me I’m beautiful no matter what state of appearance I may be in, without any prompt, and that’s enough perspective for me….
We all rock and loving yourself regardless of how you look is a beauty we all possess..
This vessel is producing a baby within the next few weeks and that in itself makes me feel beautiful…… saggy, wobbly, stretchy bits and all 💕👙
**yes, the washing is still on the line even though it’s raining